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    Wednesday, March 25

    6pm | Sapphic Tech Social Sapphic Tech Social is a come-as-you-are evening for sapphic and queer women + nonbinary folks — tech-adjacent or not — to grab a drink, meet new people, and settle into some cozy bar vibes. It’s social first (no elevator pitches), with optional bracelets to signal whether you’re here for friends, dating, or networking. | Oberon, Williamsburg →→→

    6pm | Chardonngay Spring Party Come celebrate the start of a new season with us at Rodeo! We’re back with our first event of 2026 to cheers in Spring! Come hang out with us at Rodeo to drink delicioius wine and manifest warmer weather. | Rodeo, Bushwick →→→

    6pm | SAPPHIC CELEBRATION: SOFT LAUNCH SOCIAL A mindful mixer for queer women at a lesbian women-owned bar and restaurant. Private area, drink specials, conversation starters, name-tags and host Amanda guiding you throughout the night to meet other women! | 87 Ludlow St, Lower East Side →→→

    6:30pm | GAYS & GAMEZ Yall loved our last game night so much we being it back again! If you don’t know how to play Spades or Uno this is NOT your night lol. Vibes + strong pours. Who really the best on the table? | SAINT JAMES LIBATIONS, Bed-Stuy →→→

    7pm | Beers With Queers NYC – March Meetup Join us for our March meetup at Wilka’s! Come connect with community, meet new friends, and enjoy a relaxed evening of drinks and conversation in a welcoming space. Everyone wins at Wilka’s — see you there! 🍻✨ | Wilkas NYC, Lower East Side →→→

    7pm | FOREPLAY Elevated and sexy. Warm and fun. Sometimes all you need is a little foreplay. A new Wednesday night party at Loafer’s Cocktail Bar. Every last Wednesday of the month. Featuring sounds by DJ Aball for our first midweek rendezvous. | Loafers Cocktail, Bar Carroll Gardens →→→

    7pm | QUEER MATCH MAKING LGBTQ+ ONLY No swiping. No small talk. Just real people — offline. Amata’s Pride Matchmaking Party — March 25th, NYC. RSVP now. | Available upon RSVP →→→

    7pm | QUEER POOL NIGHT Calling all girls, gays, and enbies 💫 Join us for a fun, flirty night of pool, music, and connection. Whether you’re here to sink balls or steal hearts, this is your midweek escape 🖤! Bring your friends (or make new ones 😉) — see you there! | Frog Wine Bar, East Village →→→

    7:30pm | Sports Adjacent: Free Weekly Comedy Sports Adjacent is a free, weekly comedy show at one of the only women’s sports bar in Brooklyn – Blazers Sports Bar – dedicated to all things womens sports. Featuring all-star comics each week from places like Comedy Central, Netflix, SNL, Comedy Cellar, and that reel you shared with your friends last week. Brought to you by NYC comedians Nora Jefferies & Paige Smith-Hogan. | Blazers Sports Bar, Williamsburg →→→

    [CANCELLED]8pm | Metrosexuals A monthly drag show where class meets camp and all are welcome. Hosted by the charismatic drag king duo Andie Sleaze and Luxury Bones, this is Brooklyn drag at its finest: fresh, filthy, and full of surprises. We’ve got great style, dirty minds, and fabulous taste – what more could you need for a night out on the town? | All Night Skate, Ocean Hill →→→

    8:30pm | Southeast Asian Stand Up Comedy Show A night of Southeast Asian stand-up comedy hosted by Arjun Banerjee and headlined by Ali Mehedi and Pooja Reddy. Featuring a lineup of comedians and a sneak peek of a new Bushwick performance venue. Sliding scale tickets ($5–$10). 21+. 🎤 | 219 Central Ave, Bushwick →→→


    Let’s welcome the start of spring in the city together at the gorgeous indoor–outdoor space at the Standard, High Line on March 26th. Celebrating florals (for spring? groundbreaking) and the long-awaited return of warmer weather, we’ll gather in our best ‘20s-inspired looks (think: flapper dresses, tuxedo tops with mini shorts).

    Expect a night of queer joy, cocktails, dancing, tattoos, and art. Entry includes access to watercolor materials at outdoor tables for anyone who wants to sit and get creative.

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    Thursday, March 26

    12pm | Queer Coworking Come share space with queer folks and allies for a low-key coworking session. Bring your laptop, your creative project, or whatever’s been sitting on your to-do list — we’ll have snacks, coffee, tea, and some gentle background music to keep things moving. | Coil & Cord Studio, Gowanus →→→

    7pm | Heated Rivalry Trivia: 2x More Heat presented by Lez Hang Out & Cruising It’s giving rivalry. It’s giving obsession. It’s giving gay hockey brainrot. We are back, and if you missed the last one (or you’re still thinking about that one question you almost got right), this is your chance at redemption. | Henrietta Hudson, West Village →→→

    7pm | QUEER PONG Winter 2026 Queer Pong is officially here! We’ve put together some important info on dates and league play for you to reference this season as needed. Can’t wait to see everyone at Blazers! | Blazers Sports Bar, Williamsburg →→→

    7pm | MOVIE NIGHT: DAKAN Join Opal Skies for a special screening of Dakan, the groundbreaking West African queer love story. The evening begins with a curated mixer with Dakan themed conversation cards, and guided speed friending designed to make meeting new people easy and comfortable, followed by the film screening. 🎞️| Studio 1514, Bed-Stuy →→→

    7:30pm | An Evening with Mae Martin: The Possum Get ready for a night of sharp, hilarious stand-up🎤 as Mae Martin takes the stage in NYC. Don’t miss your chance to catch this unforgettable performance—secure your seats before they’re gone! Added show at 9:30pm. | Henrietta Hudson, West Village →→→

    7:30pm | DESERT HEARTS (1985) – Opening Night Screening Join us for a special Opening Night screening of Desert Hearts (1985), the groundbreaking film directed by Donna Deitch that redefined queer cinema. Set in 1959 Reno, Nevada, the film follows Professor Vivian Bell as she embarks on a journey of self-discovery and unexpected love. | BAM Rose Cinema, Fort Greene →→→

    8pm | GROTTO A Sapphic Spring Garden Party: Art Nouveau Gatsby Celebrate the start of spring at the beautiful indoor–outdoor space at The Standard, High Line. Dress in your best ’20s-inspired looks—flapper dresses, tuxedo tops, and vintage glam—and enjoy a night of queer joy, cocktails, dancing, tattoos, and art. 🌸✨ | The Standard, High Line, Meatpacking District →→→

    8pm | Queer Tag: LGBTQ Laser Tag & Bowling Night Join us for a night of Laser Tag, Bowling and Socializing! Power-Up your good vibes and be ready to experience a nice change of pace from the bars, or home on the apps. This social mixer is specially curated to be entertaining and approachable to people looking making new friends and have fun times. | Lucky Strike Chelsea Piers, Chelsea→→→

    8pm | The Donor: A Live Game Show to Find the Perfect Sperm Donor Four potential donors (who just so happen to be male comics) will be put to the test to determine WHO is mother-to-be, Sami Schwaeber’s perfect sperm donor. A panel of dykes will judge contestants based on their emotional intelligence, smarts, queer ally-ship, and most importantly: raw vocal talent. | Littlefield, Gowanus →→→

    10pm | BUTCH. FEMME. THEY/THEM. — A Sapphic Stoplight Party Get ready for a high-energy sapphic stoplight party where you can rep your vibe and connect with the community. Come through after “Heated Rivalry Trivia Part 2” and keep the night going on the dance floor. Expect good music, queer joy, and a packed room all night. | Henrietta Hudson, West Village →→→


    Friday, March 27

    7pm | Pitch a Queer Friend IV: Spring Edition Valentine’s Day is over. The roses are dead. We’re officially tired of freezing and being single (need someone to cuddle for warmth y’knw). So as the days (slowly) get longer, get ready because Pitch a Queer Friend is back for its 4th edition!! 💋 | Sugar Mouse, Lower East Side →→→

    7pm | Queer Speed Friending Make new queer friends and connections🌷!~Introductions and ice breaker~1-on-1 with optional question cards~Fun group art activity~Hang out and mingle after! We will be kicking things off right at 7pm so please plan to arrive a few minutes early to check in 🙂 | Boyfriend Co-op, Bushwick →→→

    7:30pm | Freak & Donna & Friends A fundraiser for the Trans Film Collective of Brooklyn that hosts up and coming comedians. This will also function as a finale screening for the web series Freak & Donna! | Littlefield, Gowanus →→→

    7:30pm | Ha! or Nah!: A Joke Lab TimeOut NY PICK! At Capish?! Club: Misfit Comedy Space everyone is family. We’re a positive vibes and support-filled comedy room that fosters inclusive community. | Capish?! Club @ Lunella, Little Italy →→→

    10pm | DDD’s (Djs, Drag, Dancing) Step up to the plate for a wild night of drag, beats, and nonstop dancing 🎧✨. Powered by Dyke Beer. Hosted at The Lost Canna Club. Expect high-energy performances, fierce looks, and a dancefloor that doesn’t quit! | Club Cunning, East Village →→→

    10pm | DELULU Dress hot, dance hard, stay delulU! This isn’t just a party, it’s a rave-inspired fantasy where queer joy is loud and unstoppable. for the girlz, for the baddies, for the icons. Come sweaty, come glittered, come through 💿✨ | The Stonewall Inn, Greenwich Village →→→

    10:30pm | FRIGID Nightcap: FRIENDLY FIRE A late-night variety show at Under St. Marks featuring comedy, drag, music, performance art, and beautiful chaos. This month’s theme takes on wedge issues, misdirected rage, and coalition fracture with a lineup of sharp, strange, and wildly entertaining acts. | Under St. Marks Theater, East Village →→→


    Saturday, March 28

    9am | Sapphic Social Volleyball POV: You finally found a queer women’s volleyball group in Queens 🏐🌈! We host beginner-friendly, social volleyball runs for queer women focused on connection, good vibes, and building real community. | Vibe Fitness BQE, Woodside, Queens →→→

    1pm | TRANS ART BAZAAR Announcing the Trans Art Bazaar: Trans Day of Visibility Market!! NYC’s largest trans makers market, showcasing dozens of trans, non-binary, and gender non-conforming artists! | Brooklyn Community Pride Center, Crown Heights →→→

    2pm | Road to Pride Presents: Y2K Crawl – Hell’s Kitchen Edition Join us for our 2026 Road to Pride Bar Crawl in Hell’s Kitchen! Bring friends, make new ones, and follow along for a chance to win a prize!Get ready to mix, mingle, make new friends, and check out LGBTQIA+ hotspots – all while raising funds to support NYC Pride. Ticket sales + 10% of all sales at each bar help support NYC Pride’s work creating safe spaces for our local LGBTQIA+ community. 🏳️‍🌈 | VERS, The Red Stache, and Industry Bar, Hell’s Kitchen →→→

    2pm | PopupMarket4Gaza Spring Market Happy spring, friends! 🌸 This month we’re returning to Ginger’s Bar for another community popup market supporting our friends in Gaza, who still urgently need our help. Come by to browse amazing vendors, get a tarot reading, enjoy sweet treats, shop secondhand clothes, and connect with community. Every bit of support helps, and we can’t wait to see you there. 💜 | Ginger’s Bar, Park Slope →→→

    3pm | Gogo WERKshop A gogo dance workshop for masc of center hotties! | Open Jar Studios, Midtown →→→

    3pm | Noor Mag Issue #3 Launch & Open Mic Garod Collective is partnering with Noor Magazine to celebrate the launch of their 3rd issue with an afternoon dedicated to young and emerging writers. The event will feature an open mic inviting participants to share poetry, prose, and other creative work in a supportive, community-centered space. \ Boyfriend Co-Op, Bushwick →→→

    3:30pm | Lez Heal: A Vision Board & Meditation Circle Guided by the renewing energy of spring, this vision board experience invites clarity, and intentional reflection in an affirming space for queer womxn. | Up soul Center, Chelsea →→→

    5pm | A Luscious Life with Rachel Pegram Let’s go OUT. Indulge, put on your luxurious little fur, have one more martini! We’re gonna sing, drink, laugh, it’ll be perfect. In that spirit, Rachel Pegram cordially invites you to a buzzy evening of self-indulgence and laughter: a variety hour of comedy, music, and doing the most. Wear something stunning and bring someone you wanna kiss (romantically or platonically). | Union Hall, Park Slope →→→

    6pm | Double Date: An R&B Mixer for Queer Couples/Partners 💕An intimate mix and mingle for queer couples/partners who want to meet other couples they could befriend💕Every ticket includes a welcome drink, light bites to enjoy all evening, and intentional programming so the evening flows. | Register to See Address, The Bronx County →→→

    6pm | Sapph-LIT IN CONVERSATION WITH✨ Join us on March 28th for our conversation with (@jaquiradiaz) all about our March book pick: THIS IS THE ONLY KINGDOM 🇵🇷🩵 | Available upon RSVP →→→

    6pm | Sip & Stitch: A Queer Decorative Stitching Workshop Frey Repairs is teaming up with (@luckyfoolvintage) to throw an amazing queer event! Join us on March 28th for a whimsical evening of stitching and sipping surrounded by curated vintage and other queers! | Lucky Fool Vinatge, Bushwick →→→

    6pm | SPECIAL INTEREST PARTY We’re bringing it back! Tell us your special interest. It’s show and tell for adults! Bring a thing, make a slideshow, tell a rapt audience. You get 5 minutes to tell us about the thing you care about. Don’t forget to email us your presentations! | Boyfriend Co-op, Bushwick →→→

    6pm | Trans Day of Visibility: Trans Clothing Swap Celebrate International Transgender Day of Visibility with a community clothing swap! Bring clothes to exchange and pick out gender-affirming pieces. Extra items can be donated so nothing goes to waste. A welcoming community event to share resources, refresh your wardrobe, and celebrate trans visibility. 🌈✨ | Big Reuse, Bushwick →→→

    7pm | Pass the Aux x Gladys Books & Wine Pull up and catch a vibe at Pass the Aux, a night dedicated to highlighting women of color and femme-presenting women in music and creative culture. This is a space to celebrate sound, style, and community.🎶✨ | Glady’s Books and Wine, Bed-Stuy →→→

    7pm | Queer Book Swap I’m hosting a book swap and fundraiser at Blazers Sports Bar Saturday March 28th. Stop by with one book to swap and one book to donate, have a book-themed drink and dance with a book cutie The donated books will be going to Hive Mind Books and a percentage of profits will be donated to The Door. | Blazers Sports Bar, Williamsburg →→→

    9pm | LEZ-MINGLE “Y2K MIXER” Step into a nostalgic, flirty, and unapologetically fun night at Lez-Mingle: Y2K Mixer 💖 . We’re throwing it all the way back to the early 2000s—think flip phones, glossy lips, low-rise vibes, and iconic pop energy. Whether you lived through Y2K or just love the aesthetic, this is your chance to mix, mingle, and dance the night away in a space centered on queer women, femmes, and friends. | Fresco’s Grand Cantina, Astoria →→→

    10pm | BURNING! 3.28 Comes back once again for yet another tribute to the triumph of sapphics and transsexuals alike. A full docket of house and techno has been prescribed for you. Starting the night off strong will be KANDYLION, a DJ, organizer and ½ of the duo KNDYFRK. They will be kicking off the party before passing the deck along to KYXM, for a sustained release of your built up energy. These two DJs will light your night up. 🔥 | Ginger’s Bar, Park Slope →→→

    10pm | gURLS LIKE gIRLS Brooklyn’s HOTTEST Lesbian Party RETURNS! Hosted by Scorpio. Early Bird tickets are already selling fast! See you soon babes!💗🪩💋 | The Bush Dyke Bar, Bushwick →→→


    Calling all sapphics, trans people, and anyone who loves drag, burlesque, or a fun night out!

    THE D WORD is an all-new monthly all-dyke, sapphic and trans drag and burlesque revue at Henrietta Hudson.

    We’re celebrating all things queer here, and all are welcome! THE D WORD is hosted by Pacha and features the gorgeous and talented Big Man Sav, Cheetah Quila, DiDi Opulence, and Mr. Slut. Our inaugural show will be on Sunday, March 29th at 9:30pm! Come make a friend (or more) while enjoying show-stopping drag and burlesque, games, a FABULOUS raffle, and more!

    It’s free – reserve your spot!


    Sunday, March 29

    12pm | BOYFRIEND TURNS ONE Save the date🎉! We’re throwing an all-day celebration from 12PM–12AM to celebrate one year of BOYFRIEND! We seriously can’t believe our baby bar is already all grown up 😭 None of this would’ve been possible without all of your love and support over the past year. You’ve made this place what it is, and we’re so grateful for this community 🫶🏽 | Boyfriend Co-op, Bushwick →→→

    12pm | Queer Skate Meetup Join the community for a laid-back Queer Skate Meetup in Brooklyn! Whether you’re a beginner or seasoned skater, this is a welcoming space to roll, connect, and enjoy the day together. Open to all queer skaters and allies looking for good vibes, movement, and community 🛹✨ | Brower Skate Park, Crown Heights →→→

    2pm | GAY GARDEN GALORE X FREDI: River Walk with Fredi Nature cuties this one is for you!We will be walking along the hudson talking estuaries, wildlife, and herbs. We will be led by (@ancientbabie) who is the sweetest sailor around. This is an all ages walk, sliding scale rain or shine event!🙂‍↕️💕Head to the link to secure your spot and see what else to expect. | Meet up Infront of Five Flies Coffee, Financial District→→→

    2pm | TRANS VISIBILITY EXTRAVAGANZA Come on out during the day for a market extravaganza featuring ALL TRANS VENDORS!!! from 2-6pm! We’ll be doing raffles and bringing back our WALL OF HOTTIES to raise money for orgs supporting the trans community! Then you can hang at the bar, go get dinner, kiss someone, idk … and come back for …DYKE DRAG AT 7pm | Ginger’s Bar, Park Slope →→→

    5:30pm | Sapphic Sunday Comedy Show A lesbian, bi, queer, trans, nonbinary, femme celebrating sapphic stand up show! Mix and mingle. This one’s for the gals and queer pals. Hosted by Evelyn St James 🌈 | 219 Central Ave, Bushwick →→→

    8pm | JEM EXPERIENCE NYC’s 1st Queer Salsa/Bachata ExperienceBring a buddy or come alone to form community and learn Salsa & Bachata amongst other Queer Folks🌈🫂🙌🏼 | The Bush, Bushwick →→→

    8pm | Herstory & Verse: A Sapphic Salon Our event is designed as a space for connection and reflection, the evening invites guests to unwind through storytelling and shared experience. In partnership with sapphic-owned speakeasy Ligaw, the salon unfolds in an intimate, atmospheric setting. Guests can expect curated performances, thoughtful conversation, and elevated bites. It’s a place to soften, to listen, and to be in community. | Ligaw, Lower East Side →→→

    8pm | NYC PARTY • BEGINNER NITE Our monthly Beginner Nite is geared toward beginners and first-timers. We teach two beginner lessons at the party, and play the dances from our in-studio beginner class series. Know that all of our parties are beginner-friendly and inclusive of all levels — the more dances you learn, the more fun it gets! | The Brooklyn Monarch, East Williamsburg →→→

    9:30pm | THE D WORD Get ready for a night of drag, burlesque, drinks, raffles, and more at THE D WORD, Henrietta Hudson’s new monthly dyke, sapphic, and trans-centric drag/burlesque revue! | Blazers Sports Bar, Williamsburg →→→


    Monday, March 30

    6:30pm | Queer Film Club: Tangerine (2015) Join us on the last Monday of each month for an LGBTQ+ film discussion group exploring classic and contemporary queer cinema. This month we are discussing Tangerine (2015)—please watch it beforehand and come ready to discuss! | Brooklyn Public Library, Central Library →→→

    7pm | Cunning Stunt: Drag King Spotlight 🎬 New series premiere March 30 on WOW Presents Plus. Meet drag king Cunning Stunt in Club Cumming, starring Alan Cumming. The series also features cabaret singer Daphne Always and drag performer Michelle Wynters. | Online / Streaming →→→


    Tuesday, March 31

    1pm | Brunch ‘n Watch Big Ten Gymnastics Come watch Season 1 of NCAA Big Ten Women’s Gymnastics Championships✨. Women’s Sports Rally is excited to partner with Queer Flips – an LGBTQIA+ centered gymnastics org based right here in NYC. | Athena Keke’s, Clinton Hill →→→

    5:30pm | HRTuesday: DEFROSTED A community led fundraising event for trans people, by trans people. We aim to create a safe, welcoming, and SICKENINGLY fun event for our trans siblings with the goal of raising community funds for trans performers and political causes on the last Tuesday of every month. | Starr Bar, Bushwick→→→

    7pm | QUEER WORKOUT Get ready to sweat, laugh, and feel fabulous in this inclusive and empowering workout session. Join us for a fun and energetic workout designed for all fitness levels. Whether you’re a seasoned gym-goer or a total newbie, this class is for you! Come as you are and let’s get our sweat on together. See you there! | 720 Strength LES, LES →→→

    7pm | Most of My Moms Are Gay A sharp, funny, and heartfelt solo musical from Abby Goldfarb about identity, family, and growing up with five moms (most of them lesbians). Expect humor, vulnerability, and original songs that explore queerness, Jewishness, and modern family life. Come laugh, reflect, and feel very seen.🎭🌈 | Caveat, Lower East Side →→→

    7pm | POP CULTURE TRIVIA 🔥Hot New Trivia Alert🔥 Pop Quiz Party is taking is talents and questions every Tuesday Night! A trivial night of comedy, questions and revelry. This trivia is for the chronically online, US Weekly readers, the folks addicted to the scroll. Come play trivia with your friends!! | Blazers Sports Bar, Williamsburg →→→

    7pm | STRAPPED: A Monthly Queer Comedy Show Join Olivia Levine at Stonewall Inn every month as she welcomes some of the city’s best queer (and queer adjacent) comedians to the stage! Anyone and everyone is welcome as long as they are respectful and mindful of the space they are in. Stonewall is a sacred, iconic queer venue. Treat it that way 🙂 | Stonewall Inn, West Village →→→

    7pm | TGNC Comedy Show Celebrate International Transgender Day of Visibility with TGNC Comedy Show: an all trans stand up comedy show. Hosted by Dezzy.🌈 | Boyfriend Co-op, Bushwick →→→

    7pm | THE T.D.O.V POWERPOINT PARTY Celebrate International Transgender Day of Visibility (TTDOV) at a fun and creative PowerPoint Party hosted by The Nonbinarian. Guests are invited to present short and entertaining presentations on any topic of their choice. While all topics are welcome, presentations highlighting queer and trans experiences, culture, and community are especially encouraged. | 1130 President St., Crown Heights →→→

    7pm | TDOV 2026: Visibility Is Not Enough Join us this Trans Day of Visibility for an important and empowering community conversation centered on the realities, strengths, and limitations of visibility in today’s world. Together, we’ll explore the complexities of visibility while uplifting the resilience and humanity of the trans community. Come learn, connect, and stand in solidarity. 🏳️‍⚧️ | Gladys Books & Wine, Bed-Stuy →→→

    8pm | TDOV Celebration Fundraiser Join a special TDOV celebration raising funds and awareness for Black Trans Liberation Kitchen. The evening will feature a DJ set by Sex in Church, vegan bites, raffle prizes, and specialty cocktails, with happy hour prices all night. A suggested donation will be collected at the door, with proceeds supporting BTLK’s mission to help end homelessness and food insecurity for Black trans communities.💖 | Henrietta Hudson, West Village →→→


    Note: The above events are based on available information and are subject to change. Please verify details.